Life is never a bed of roses. One faces all sorts of ups and downs in life. How does it change the course of life? In fact does it change the course of life? Yes, it does change you, your activities, your emotions and your life as a whole.
From the very childhood most of us have been pampered immensely by our parents. They try their level best give us all kinds of happiness which we want and deserve. As we keep growing we slowly have the realization of how can we keep ourselves happy. Let it be by buying a gel pen instead of a ball pen also. We keep searching ways of how can we be happy and keep all our surroundings happy at the same time. Then comes a stage when we start finding our happiness in our parents happiness, making them happy who have been a very important part of our life. But is that all we want? Where do we get the ultimate happiness? Is it only by helping our near & dear ones, or is by keeping them happy, or is it by fulfilling our own needs, or is it by doing charity? All ends up in a cluster of unanswered questions.
Yet, the answer to all these question lies inside you. To define happiness in this manner we may say that happiness is that feeling when you look yourself in the mirror, give a smile and see whether you are having any wrinkles of tension on your face, whether there are any problems to be sorted out. In short, whether you are smiling from your heart or is it just a fake smile to suppress your feeling? If you see yourself in the mirror, smiling from your heart, even with all sorts of problems persisting in your life, that's where the happiness of your life lies.
Life is never perfect. You can try hard to make perfections in your life and make it trouble free, but can never achieve that. But the real happiness lies when you find something best even from the worst incident in your life. Keep smiling at all phases of life. There is no other go except accepting life with grace. The methods of keeping oneself happy may vary from person to person, but it all depends upon themselves to keep them happy. There's a quote:
"Smile a while & while you smile, others will smile & soon there will be miles & miles of smile because life is worth only when you smile".
If you are happy, you'll make others happy. Everything you do, will give you positive reciprocation. The problems of life will give you something very positive out of it. You will start feeling blessed with the life that God gifted you. That's where the ultimate satisfaction lies.
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